Peaking are we?

First I want to say that the following is written in a slight exaggerated manner, to make a point. Also it was written with a smile, so don't take all of it immensely serious...

From what I know and have learned, women have their sexual peak in their 30’s. I feel I have been in that peak all my life really… :-)

I am 32 now and well into that 30’s peak. Am I? Can I sense a difference? To that I will shout a resounding and clear YES!!! At times it is "all I can think of". Luckily it doesn’t interfere with my daily life, studies or anything else. It is just always lying there, at the back of my head, “scraping” my brain to make sure I notice it… I think it should be "illegal" to be single during these years; it can drive you nutty it can. :-) Ok, if you are “easygoing”, if you know what I mean, I guess you can always get some… To me, however, who won’t have one-night stands; to me it certainly is quite tricky at times. I have no option but to go on “killing kittens”, and boy do I ever! *lol* (I don’t mean literally; I refer to my post of March 8th, for explanation)

Fortunately I do have friends who are undergoing the same phase of sexual peak. They are all in relationships though, with men who can’t believe their luck. No headaches, constant periods, tiredness or other lame excuses to spot for miles. *lol*

This brings me over to the fact that so many women do not want to have sex with their men, and vice versa. I do not get that. Why? How is it possible to say no? Ok, if my body was in severe pain, and I was totally drugged down, I would probably say no if my man wanted to have a go. I have never said no once, is that deviant perhaps? (And in that I mean said no to my boy/girlfriend) Sex and intimacy is really worth doing. It does wonders to our minds, moods, and it is brilliant for the relationship. I do remember not being instantly in the mood, but then I reminded myself of how great it really is, and then I would be up for it nevertheless. Even if one is unable to go all the way, for some reason, sex/intimacy can be done in so many ways, right...
I do know that times will come where even I will have to say no. There might be emotional or physical reasons, who knows!?

We always hear that men think about sex much more than women. If that is the case, how you get any work done guys, is beyond me. However; I do know that I am the odd one, amongst most of my friends and acquaintances, when it comes to this. I will not be branded though, I am no slut and I am no nymphomaniac either, so there! ;-) I am a normal, open and playful woman, who is more than in touch with her mind and body, and therefore dare to be sexual. I know I have addressed some of this in another blog entry. But I think it is vital for women to see that it is ok to be horny and sexual, despite being woman. It isn’t a guys’ thing, it's a human thing!
But use the wantonness wisely though… ;-)

I have also come to the conclusion that for me this “extreme” feeling may be caused by my utter infatuation by Bob. I mean, he has “been here” for 1 year and 9 months. How sad a case am I?! My point is; the longing towards him and his body make my hormones run a little more wildly than usual... I think so anyways…

This is Vegar, totally hung up on "Roger Waters", hardly noticing I took this photo of him...

Enough now…

It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man in a possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife. “Pride and Prejudice”

By the way, Viking, a local football/soccer team won today, 1-0 over Tromsø. Important!

Love Monsoon ;-)